For instance, “I don’t know” becomes a sort of mantra. For some of us, this statement causes a disturbance within. Fear of portraying an egotistical mindset, if you will.
If we fall into Sleep, the grip of Hypnos and into Love, the embrace of Eros; then do we too fall from Paradise? It is said that the wage of sin is Death. We pay this wage to Thanatos. Then we spend our time with Hades, the Lord of the UnderWorld.
There are people who come into your life and change it for the better. There are people who will leave lasting impressions in your heart but how do you get to know them if you don’t give love a chance to reign. Love is meant to be shared, shown and felt. So don’t be afraid to love. Being a coward in love may kill your chances of being happy. Do not fear, summon courage and confess your love to him or her. He could be the one for you. She could be the one for you. Profess, share, show and feel your Double Ended Dildos, that might be your chance of being happy.
Another incident was a nice young gentleman who was looking for a relationship only to be surprised by a gal who robbed him blind and stole his car. When the cops found the car, it was totally destroyed. He never looked to online dating either and both victims were turned off my dating totally until they found out about the old-fashioned way of dating through a reliable dating service.
Regardless of how closed or open you perceive yourself, I think we can all admit that our heart is closed to some degree. When we feel we lack love, it is not that we lack, but may unconsciously be stopping it.
Could it be a question of maturity? Or age? I do not believe that age plays a factor in whether a man will know how to romance his other half, and be affectionate. There are plenty of older men who still lacks the ability and knowledge on what romance is, and how to be affectionate to his other half. I do however, believe that maturity plays a major role in what a man knows as being romantic and affectionate. A mature man will understand the importance of romance in his relationship, and take the extra step to romance his partner while also finding new ways to keep the fire burning in the relationship.
Learning to be conversational and friendly will also help you find love. By learning to be the one who strikes up conversations with others, you will not only multiply the amount of guys you get to talk to and have a chance of something more developing, but people you get to know as a result of your welcoming banter may know someone they think is an ideal match for you.
The important thing to create romance is to have fun. Do not take it too seriously, and do not think about your office work during that time. Many distractions from work can demolish the romance.